I had about 5 half finished posts that just didn’t seem to get done…and then life happened and I didn’t know how to catch up. But now I’m decided-here’s the down low on where I’ve been/what I’ve been up to according to my phones camera roll (pretty this idea is stolen from Emma!):
Here we go!
I’ve been riding a lot.
Spot the baby keeping watch…
My daughter rode her pony of the first time.
And then, her first “full size” horse because it’s her Dads mare and we couldn’t resist how excited she was to see the horses.
I stole this spicy little western mare for the annual family trail ride.
I got rear ended on the highway and luckily was able to drive away. Missed my riding lesson though.
I drank some wine.
I found this painting that I think I need for my dining room.
And I rigged up a new way to get snacks to #tinyequestrian while I ride.
Snacks buckled onto the little human.
I experienced my first Oktoberfest! Then split a bottle amongst work friends on a downtown rooftop.
Also, she stands and kind of walks…lord help us!
Goals for the next few weeks:
1. Get some media of the fancy Deedee in action!
2. Actually finish a blog post, or thought or….
I’m wasn’t someone who is got all starry eyed and high pitched when babies were mentioned. I mostly just internally laughed at the fact that those
suckers parents who were up all night, covered in weird juices, and their very lives being dictated by these tiny, squishy narcissists.
But then I had one of my own. And I’m totally obsessed,so the joke is on me. While learning the inside and out of keeping a tiny human happy, I realized some things related directly to my time with horses. Allow me to share the reasons having horses in my life prepared me for having my daughter…
- The bills. $200 for baby shots and her monthly appointment? SIGN ME UP. Once you pay for a few vaccinations plus the farrier and such, I was clearing way more than that on a monthly basis for a horse. By this scale, baby is practically cheap.
- They can sense fear. I swear to God my daughter can tell when I’m not in a place to have her melt down on me. And then proceeds to melt down on me, just to be sure I remember who is boss. So number one rule, don’t fear the baby. Same rule applies to horses (duh).
- The opinions. You have them, my 2nd cousin once removed’s wife has them. Congrats. This goes for horses, and now babies. I do not need your constant opinions and 50 different recommendations. Thanks for adding to my anxiety.
Paint pony isn’t so sure about cooing pink cheetah dressed squish.
- Sleeping. I figure if I could drag myself out of bed in the dark hours of the night for a horse show, I can do the same for my baby. You know that adorable happy look your horse gives you when they see you. Babies do that too. Heart squeeze.
- Googling. Learned this the hard way with my injury prone pony. Do not google. Especially at weird hours of the night. You will not like what you find.
- Camera phone skills. If horse or baby is doing something, and it’s not life threatening…always take a second to take a picture. Because cute. iCloud storage be damned.
Like when you daughter decides this is the optimal toy chewing position.
- Poop. (You know I had to go there.) After you’ve mucked your way through years of lessons, or stepped in or on steamy horse poo….well the baby doesn’t even compare. Still ew. But just an ‘ew’ that you accept and move on from.
- Communication. I’ve spent so many years trying to wordlessly communicate with my horse. It’s not so different to try to figure out what your baby needs. There are things that don’t need words.
No words needed.
First I must confess. Maternity leave is a strange, strange world. I’m definitely not used to being home as much, and man do you notice random things. For one, shopping is SO MUCH easier during the day. Another, I discovered the trim in my living room is actually two different shades of white. Finally, there is no one judging as I dressed my poor kid up in a bear suit, and hauled her cute butt out to the barn a time or two during the week.
Torturing child with tummy time after a barn run. Bear suit in all it’s glory.
The first time I went out there with her, O actually hightailed it away from me. Guessing she wasn’t a fan of the cooing ‘belly’ I was wearing. Baby was in a carrier, zipped into part of my coat. After I convinced O that she wasn’t going to be eaten by baby, we have had some really nice days together.
Baby carrier-vital for hauling child around stables.
Some days I just have time to groom, rearrange blankets, and give nose kisses. Other days I wear baby into the arena and lunge O. Which is much easier than you’d think. And then there are days that I bribe random people with Starbucks to watch baby sleep so I can ride.
Have I mentioned I am seriously the luckiest Mom ever? This kid is totally chill, and as long as we have a binky for times of crisis (like when I brush too vigorously and bug her, or try to awkwardly pick out feet or tail clumps wearing her), we are good to go. It’ll be interesting to see how baby handles barn time once she’s more aware. Fingers crossed she keeps up the awesome-ness.
Random cuddle picture.
Anyway, more coming on recent rides, and slowly getting back into shape!
Don’t forget, Hampton Ivy giveaway closes on the 28th and will be announced on Friday!! Get excited!
This weekend was awesome, full of friends, family, sporting events, and finally, a whole morning to hang out with my favorite bay mare.
While she is pretty sunbleached, everything else about her screams healthy, happy pony. Especially since they’ve broken down the herd a bit and she now only goes out with her favorite little grey pony and her slightly smaller bay mare buddy. Same one I rode in the family’s big trail ride.
Anyway, I have to admit that having her pay attention to me, and come over for cuddles pretty much made my week. I mean, look how cute she was! Excuse the grey pony photobomb–they are besties.
This mare makes me so happy!
We had to get our selfie on.
While the family says she’s been a great visitor, I am so, so excited to get her back. I know that it’s going to be a lot juggling, and probably plenty of stress with an infant, and a mare coming back into work. But I guess for the time being I’m going with the ‘jump into the deep end’ part of things. November is going to be a wild month!
Her version of kisses goodbye.
Horse meets bump!
My horse is 2.5 hours away being a ranch pony.
I’m too rotund to squeeze into my breeches.
So I’m contenting myself with vast amounts of internet hunting for baby stuff. And of course, I whipped up a quick little mood board thing for the nursery. The hubs is allllllll over the decor/building portion of her life (I cook the baby, he handles the manual labor). As of right now, her room is painted, crib and dresser built, and random decor items has started to collect in the space. It’s getting real folks!
I thought I’d share my ideas for the nursery. I’m in love with the bright, minty green that her room is painted! Obviously her name will not be Henry. Just stole the image to help sooth my nesting mind.
The sheets and accents will be stars. Neither the hubs or I found some of the already put together themes (owls, zoo animals, anchors) to be a great fit, so we are just pulling stuff together ourselves. Thank god for Amazon.
Bonus points if you can figure out where the quote is from! There will be several in the room a few other small touches from that same reference to help ease our nerdy tendencies.
Only 2 and a half months to go!
It’s happening to me, the gradual change from weddings every other weekend to baby showers. Which is really sad because I’ve about memorized every Bed, Bath and Beyond store layout in a 10 mile radius. That and the excessive amounts of wedding gift bags I’m still trying to regift from our own wedding.
Anyway, point being is that many of my friends are starting to have kids, and it’s even more special when it’s your best friend….the one who rides with you all the time and who you trust completely with your own horse, who people commonly mistake you for (appearance and tendencies factor in this one), and the one whose husband puts up with me eating their leftovers whenever I don’t feel like cooking.
So far we’ve been through a lot!
Matron of honor at my wedding…
So it was the most fun to be able to take these announcement photos for her.
She is going to be an amazing mom! Congrats to the whole family, including new (very) big sister Honey!